Dream, to help you blow away the fog of the mind!
Sense, we like self-deception. Lover dumped her, you say: and the results are bitterly painful. So you try to make myself not to remember that 8 years, 8 years is not as if it appeared in your life. supervisor criticize you, you're smiling bear. home, you made a pass for children Great temperament. unsatisfactory income, you're getting a lower income people like friends, because in comparing them, you feel very comfortable. in a city suffered much pain, as you escape it, to a new life in another city. hh All this is understandable, after all, too painful, we need some twisted way to make yourself feel comfortable. However, if self-deception become a habit, your life is bound to Kuaibian fog into a ball You do not know where you are, do not know where were going. So you always do some strange things, like what forces are holding you, so you always again and again to make mistakes. This time, you need to find the answer from the subconscious, the unconscious mind is never self-deception. a dream, let's dig into the subconscious of the most convenient and most effective way.
Zhuang Zhou dreamed that he turned into a butterfly, wake up trance I do not know this man was dreaming about disillusioned themselves into butterflies, or butterfly dreaming that dream became disillusioned. about to feel about themselves in the dream would be more sober. Rongwei Ling counselors agree with this view, she said: us. On the contrary, in order to feel better, our consciousness will deceive us. their subconscious the most convenient channel for people who never dream, and their own lost opportunity to communicate with the subconscious. . The fog makes us feel very comfortable in a short time, but they often take us deeper into the trap. and we are even in the trap, while extremely painful, on the other hand self-deceiving to say too good here ! I was too happy in this! to disperse the fog, the dream is the best way.
more importantly, the dream of a more wealthy than our conscious insight and creativity. this experience: their own in a dream made a very fine poetry, music, just wake up have forgotten. that's more wisdom. comfortable, but there are many self-deception is to hurt them, because these people do not learn to respect themselves, they consciously think they just had a bad life with, but if they know how to listen to inspire dreams, they will understand that they can not be reconciled, they want but also have the ability to enjoy life.
30-year-old Axue is a traditional woman, but unable to extricate themselves caught in a affair, so come Rong Weiling do counseling. Axue very beautiful, but she regards as its own ugly. This is so because her father grew up laughing at her ugly, as a certain class of students, not as the girl next door. In addition, the father always called her stupid, stupid, lazy, and everything do not. The most intimate people have been denied their own, which gives Axue caused immeasurable impact. once the pursuit of a Master Jiao Acheng Axue, he was handsome and talented, and love Axue. In others it seems They make a lovely couple. But Axue not accept him, but in the age of 25 she married a big 10-year-old divorced man. later, she met with Ah Cheng, A Cheng although now married, but her feelings are still there. They soon sparks, into love again. This allows Axue into a division. the one hand, She believes that affair is evil. On the other hand, she could not restrain myself. Every time Ah Cheng said goodbye, she would say to myself, She simply could not help myself. In addition to feelings, sexual temptation, because the husband has erectile dysfunction, they have not done a love for two years. During the beginning of this affair, Axue always do a strange dream, dream see her husband had an affair, and each dream, the husband's extramarital affairs are not the same lover. This is not surprising, Rongwei Ling said, this dream has a protective effect. because of her guilt is too strong, while the dream her husband having an affair, there will be a balancing role, appropriate to reduce her own allegations. Axue also admit that every time from this dream, wake up, she has a sense of relief. Another strange thing is, though she A love into, but as long as six months, she did not dream of A into one. But this is actually an illusion, her guilt is too strong, so there is not A as in his own image in the dream , but in fact, almost appear in Azerbaijan into her every dream, but are an indirect manner. For example, she dreamed that her husband, but he was wearing a coat Ah Cheng; a little girl she dreamed of a single person to go into Afghanistan dated her and place; she dreamed I went into the house Ah hh these dreams are on A into a care.
treatment of early, Axue did a scary dream: Open the door of a girlfriend, and many people came in carrying two stretcher, a stretcher is Axue, a stretcher was her husband, two very, very old, has skin and bones. Suddenly, the husband out of the emaciated hand, grasp Axue feet. dreams do here, Axue be Xiaxing the. During the consultation room, Rong Weiling Axue asked: and her husband will grow old. With the progress of treatment, Axue they will understand the meaning of the dream. Axue she said: Snow is very beautiful, but my father insisted that she was ugly. Axue very smart, but my father insisted that she was stupid. father for his daughter around the need to create a mass of fog another group, Axue eventually into the Mission fog do not know whether it is a kind of person. extramarital affairs in addition to her guilt, but also let her fear, she is very afraid of divorce, do not be afraid of her husband, her job is to find her husband gave her, she think they left her husband to live. A to love her, but she really worried about divorce, if not A into her, she would be finished, have nothing. Di. And Every time, she let Axue do some self-evaluation. At first, her assessment was become a In the end, Rong Weiling Axue asked: It said: Some women dream about themselves and their spouses overtaken the bones of the dead. One monster is because the image of the stirring of our hearts of many people is the Skeleton Demon mm our own. Image is no access to the most poor state. In addition, stretching over her husband's hand grasp Axue, this is actually subconscious telling Axue, although she consciously considered themselves scared to leave her husband, but is actually afraid to leave her husband. later things are really confirmed this, when Axue divorce, the husband strongly disagreed.
dream of extraordinary intuitive insight we have insight into the natural ability of the truth, but because of family, school and community teach us to do things according to reason, and ultimately lost most of us from the intuitive insight. However, the dream could easily break through these rational dogmas, and direct insight into the truth.
A and B met each other in the future to discuss cooperation on the cause. A very good impression on the B, it was decided to B as their career partner. met the night, A made a dream: he saw sitting in their office B, is read books, and tampered with some figures on the books to hide the fact that he diverted large sums. and B to cooperate. But a year later, A found, B without occupying a lot of money really, and do a lot of false accounts. This is a dream psychologist Erich Fromm said. ordinary people would think that this dream is predicted, such as invisible forces told the A, and B do not cooperate. However, Fromm believes that the strength of the so-called fact is that somewhere in our subconscious, or intuition, instinct. A subconscious actually B is not found reliable, but with the rhetoric and performances, or B Fu deceived A, or A does not allow its easy to suspect a person. Therefore, his insight into the subconscious awareness of screening. However, the subconscious knows and B co-operation is very dangerous, So in a dream, unmistakable reminder of A, A pity, or not to accept. ; Rongwei Ling said: year-old son, her brother would like to remarry and have met a woman so that he was satisfied. The first time I saw the future wife, the Emei am very pleased. because of her brother, and on the future of elderly people is good, more 6-year-old nephew of the very good care of. However, Emei is also the feeling that some parts of the future wife to let her suffer, but in the end she could not say this is why. The results, Emei night had a dream: 6 years nephew of the 4th floor balcony boat bouncing on playing, crumbling balconies, Amei a hand grab the balcony door, he pulled a hand. But the boat was hard bounce, Emei feel little energy, and this found that family did not know there was a woman, Emei woman to help her find it. She agreed, and Emei, like a hand to seize the balcony door, a hand to seize the boat. At this time, the balcony off down, Emei very happy, after all, was their nephew, firmly in his hands. But at this time, Namingnvzi loose his hand, Emei unexpected, can not grasp the nephew, watched the boat go out . Emei good home to take care of all won the goodwill of, but in her heart did not accept Emei's nephew, and Emei instinct to capture this information. This is soon confirmed. The second home, my brother on Emei, said: > A girl met his idol mm, a famous author, when she was trembling with excitement, but at night she did dream about an ugly, unreasonable writers of children dressed in clothes. woke up, she felt that dream of giving her a sense of shame, it seems like a betrayal of the idol. But in fact, this is her subconscious insight into the nature of this writer. In another example, a boy met a homely girl, he likes her, but not hold anything against her pretty little. evening, he had a dream that she and many girls stand together beautiful than anyone else. This is the insight into the subconscious, subconscious told her that the girl than anyone else, To cherish her. to communicate with people, will often abstract insight. time, there are some rules to follow. often dreams about dragon, Buddha, means that a person strong sense of morality, relatively harsh on yourself, and easy to suppress their desires; often dreams about strong castle, which means a person personality structure is complete, but it may be too rigid; not a student who often dreams about examination, and the results are poor, often have zero, also means a strong sense of morality and responsibility, he kept to test whether a moral enough, enough responsible people; dream of thunder and lightning, means that a person in, a storm inside; often dreams to the airport, the station faced numerous obstacles on the way, means a person in self-development had some trouble ; dreamed of playing cards, you have many good cards but hold on to, and order was always a mess how are finishing well, means a lot for your good choice, but you do not handle. On the contrary, means that you have handled good. woman dreamed combing their hair, but how bad comb all the hair, love means more trouble. hh there are many cases, no analysis can intuitively know what the answer is. If the time do not understand may wish to take in two days, the answer will automatically appear in the dream.
One night, a regular analysis of their own consultants to do a dream had a dream: the dark dark night, he passed the door aunt in rural areas, which , a voice said to him: kill to suppress the body. At the same time, he feel so vibrant, and that the thrill of feeling extremely uncomfortable wave followed wave of tremors from the beginning to the feet, and then to the feet from the ground tremors. And about a minute, his body was re- you can listen to his sense of command. A few years ago, he experienced a similar nightmare. because of fear, each time the screen like a lot better after sleep. But the next day, the nightmare hit again, he better by imagining This method overcomes the fear hh screen the next 20 days, at least half of the night, he experienced a nightmare. nightmare is terrible, but now, the consultants know: I do not have to fight, I accept, I listen, listen to dream in the end to tell me anything. sleep, nightmares and again a short time hh attack, was hit five or six times after the last wake up from a nightmare, he was not a little fear in mind peace but with a strange, black Paint the bedroom just like my mother's womb as quiet and safe. you wait, the dream will automatically tell you the answer, but he still would not understand what is the answer. Two days later, he had a dream: as black pitch-dark night, a golden, flying snakes chasing him, he desperately to escape. and went to aunt house, the door opened, and my aunt held out his hand, dragged him to a door, then immediately closed the door to draw the line gold snake was off to the door. He suddenly woke up and immediately understand that the He has been in the analysis of their own childhood, but it has not remembered one detail: from the notes, he is experienced many unfortunate mother's confidant. the child is the worst talk to the object, they do not have the ability to help adults face the problem, distraction when adults can not pass over the mood to talk. This psychiatrist is no exception, so he has to escape, while my aunt home is his stay is ten months. aunt to do the rice is difficult to eat, compared with his mother, called a heaven and an underground, but this has not reduced his aunt home happy. However, he, like others, on a little bit silly aunt lack of respect. Then he understood why he never love at home. Although he has been since that his parents love and education did not have to say, he never complained. However, from junior high school began to live on campus , he has never been away from home and sad time for each holiday will go back to school. in constant self-examination, he has realized many things. aunt 7 years ago, died when he fell into severe depression. long Since he had no thought of his depression and he does not have any contact Xiaojiu Ma Dear, all because he thought caused his girlfriend broke up. Now, he understood, because the aunt did not go to mourn, his depression in the largely a memory of my aunt. still to defend the mother is the perfect r l with a point that the idea of self-deception, and dream easily break it, I have been told to find the answer. Such things are common.
a female consultant, recently had a dream: In the morning, she appeared in Xi'an, she wants to eat a bowl of ravioli. wonton two dollars a bowl, but not a penny on her . is sad, the way a man appeared, lent her two dollars, so she was able to buy a small bowl of wonton. solution. she had never been to Xi'an, and her recent dreams are made, she was very rich, what can afford, see the beautiful clothes you can buy, and saw the same affordable food, and every time to buy a very wonderful time . that man's face is also difficult to read, she does not want to understand who he is. Now would not understand, wait it is. the results, the next night, she had a dream, a dream about her former boyfriend. awake to the moment, she realized that the original dream of the man is the first of her ex-boyfriend. She has not dreamed of two years ex-boyfriend, and the second reason why the dream of his dream, is nothing more than subconscious to tell Her first dream of the answer. understand this after all questions have been solved. It turned out that her recent business trip, you can choose either of Xi'an, you can also choose another city. she has chosen another city, but have thought about: If you go to Xi'an, she could see the former boyfriend. For her, this is a temptation. But the dreams told her best to reject the temptation. because the feeling is just a bowl of wonton, and she wants to eat it, have to ask her boyfriend charity. Why is that? you recently been in a very rich, but the dream ah, the immediate temptation of life is much better than Xi'an. So please, give up the temptation to Xi'an it! more interesting is On the third day, has not contacted more than two years by QQ ex-boyfriend sent her a text message: think of you lately, how are you? So did two series of dreams, reminded me in advance what to do. very difficult task, but the patent professionals. intuition. dream emotions and your first thought is most important. For example, Axue the Even then, on a perfect, no convincing. In fact, she knew the meaning of this dream, but the consciousness of fear to face fills the significance of psychological treatment for her is to help her face her psychological truth. dreams do not necessarily solution is to have to realize that dream as long as you realize, can better play. as long as you pay a certain amount of effort, the dream will naturally develop, and eventually give you unexpected help. the previously mentioned cases, are This was confirmed. can be said that the subconscious like water, they are always in our hearts flow. if you follow it, then it will take you to the right place to go. But if you insist on and fight it, then you will stay away from it.
Rong Weiling like dream interpretation from 1999, she first made every few days to record their special dream, and now developed to record virtually every day dream. Now, she's Network called come, as if vaguely remember, but one opened his eyes to remember anything. If you want to record their dreams, Rong Weiling suggested the best bed with pen and paper. However, when wake up Do not turn around, do not open your eyes. to wake up just to maintain the posture, eyes closed, images of dream recall, and finally the formation of a few key words, for example, there are a few key words Axue dream girlfriend home details.
Interpretation of Dreams is not magic, believe me, if you start to do so. So, you will eventually find that you gain too much from the dream.
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